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Disciple Archetype Recap
Year two looks a little bit different that year one. With a different format, it allows a little more flexibility in how Cale and I tackle the content. Year two will cover three different archetypes that a godly man should… Continue reading
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Temporary to Eternal Difficulty Day
To mark the end of the first year of Lovett Legacy, Cale and I went back to where we had his initiation: Ponca, AR. We stayed in the same cabin, hiked the same 8-mile hike, ate at the same pizza… Continue reading
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Whole to a Part – Difficulty Day
Shift 3 Difficulty Day was awesome. Cale and I drove about 4 hours to the Ozarks to go camping in the middle of Matt and Sara Keener’s property. We had lunch with David and Tanya, and then Cale spent about… Continue reading
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February/March Badge/Challenge
This month, Cale and I are reading through CS Lewis’ Screwtape Letters together. We are separately reading 6 letters per week, and then will have breakfast on Saturdays over the next 6-8 weeks to discuss. As Cale grows in his… Continue reading
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January Challenge / Badge Update
This weekend, Cale and I got up early on Saturday and had breakfast together. Afterward, we started exploring our family tree. We were able to trace the Lovett name all the way back to the mid-16th century. Lancaster Lovett emigrated… Continue reading
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January & February Badge / Challenge
The challenge for January and February ties in directly with the whole to a part shift we just started. Over the next few weeks, Cale will meet with his Gran and Papa as well as Grammie and Gramps to interview… Continue reading
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Self to Others – Day of Service
The Difficulty Day for Shift Two was a full day of service. I had 8 envelopes which I gave Cale throughout the day. On the outside of each was a quote which tied in to the next task he was… Continue reading
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Self to Others: Week Ten – Lessons on Living for Others
Boys are selfish. Men love. Cale and I wrapped up the shift from self to others. I could not be happier with how the first 20 weeks of Lovett Legacy have gone. Cale has been an absolute stud. Zero complaints,… Continue reading
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Self to Others: Week Nine – Loyalty to Others
Boys Bail. Men Remain. One of my biggest concerns with the longevity of Lovett Legacy was that the boys would grow weary of getting up early, the novelty would wear off, it would become increasingly difficult to keep them motivated,… Continue reading
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December Badge / Challenge
Cale and I really enjoyed the November challenge of starting each morning with a 15-minute yoga session. We had to start our mornings a little bit earlier, but it was something I looked forward to each morning. Cale’s December challenge… Continue reading
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Self to Others: Week Eight – A Relationship for Others
Boys ignore. Men invite. This week was all about relationships. Our relationship with God. Our relationship with others. We discussed the four levels of relationship: We tackled some tough questions this week: Why do we obey? Why/how do we follow… Continue reading
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Self to Others: Week Seven – Patience for Others
Boys get frustrated. Men have patience. This was a really good week of practical ways to grow as a young man. Netflix, Amazon, Shipt, Uber, Door Dash… We live in a world in which patience isn’t really required in order… Continue reading
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November Badge/Challenge
Cale did really well with the knot-tying challenge in October. By the end of the month, he could tie the bowline, figure-eight follow through, and square knot with his eyes closed, and also taught Alissa how to successfully tie each… Continue reading
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Ease to Difficulty – Difficulty Day
After Cale and I finished Shift One on Friday morning, I gave him an OU shirt and told him that we had tickets to the OU/TX football game the next day and would be spending the weekend in Dallas. We… Continue reading
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Ease to Difficulty: Week Ten – Legacy
Boys think short term. Men think long term. The final week of shift one centered around the idea of leaving a legacy. Every time you start a new chapter in life, you leave a legacy behind. We talked about the… Continue reading